Is mind-blowing sex a myth?
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What is mind-blowing sex anyway? Romance novels have always fascinated me in the way they depict the act of sex, the feeling of sex and the whole idea of sex. Just can't relate to it. Perhaps it's because of the Asian culture.
An example is the exagerration of oral sex. Is it that pleasurable? I've read of women climaxing from oral sex. Just doesn't seem possible to me. And do you think a guy's tongue can penetrate the vagina? Not unless the tongue is as hard as a penis can be or the girl's vagina is a wide open hole. I think that romance novels glorify sex and give girls, especially young girls, false impressions of what it's like. Don't forget that the characters are usually uninhibited and there is rarely the mention of the consequence of accidents happening.
We often receive emails telling us how much better it is to have sex than to go jogging. You brun more calories, you stretch more muscles, you live longer, you're healthier, you won't die of heart attack or stroke, you have betetr relationship with your partner... blablabla... Yes, we know it's healthy, but we need to know what more comes of it. What about the pain and the diseases and the emotional attachment (for young girls)? Everywhere you hear that sex is beautiful, experiencing an orgasm is like going to heaven and back. Really? Seriously?
I think most statistics show that women who don't, outnumber women who experience orgasms. So will it always be a myth to most of us? Will I ever experience it? Is it suppose to be more than than pleasure. It seems that we are never well-informed on the matter. We only learn from TV and books. Not that the sex we have now isn't great. But when will we ever know if such a thing as wonderful, mind-blowing, earth shattering, soul-out-of-the-body sex every exists? Someone... anyone... please tell me it does...
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What is mind-blowing sex anyway? Romance novels have always fascinated me in the way they depict the act of sex, the feeling of sex and the whole idea of sex. Just can't relate to it. Perhaps it's because of the Asian culture.
An example is the exagerration of oral sex. Is it that pleasurable? I've read of women climaxing from oral sex. Just doesn't seem possible to me. And do you think a guy's tongue can penetrate the vagina? Not unless the tongue is as hard as a penis can be or the girl's vagina is a wide open hole. I think that romance novels glorify sex and give girls, especially young girls, false impressions of what it's like. Don't forget that the characters are usually uninhibited and there is rarely the mention of the consequence of accidents happening.
We often receive emails telling us how much better it is to have sex than to go jogging. You brun more calories, you stretch more muscles, you live longer, you're healthier, you won't die of heart attack or stroke, you have betetr relationship with your partner... blablabla... Yes, we know it's healthy, but we need to know what more comes of it. What about the pain and the diseases and the emotional attachment (for young girls)? Everywhere you hear that sex is beautiful, experiencing an orgasm is like going to heaven and back. Really? Seriously?
I think most statistics show that women who don't, outnumber women who experience orgasms. So will it always be a myth to most of us? Will I ever experience it? Is it suppose to be more than than pleasure. It seems that we are never well-informed on the matter. We only learn from TV and books. Not that the sex we have now isn't great. But when will we ever know if such a thing as wonderful, mind-blowing, earth shattering, soul-out-of-the-body sex every exists? Someone... anyone... please tell me it does...
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